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Saturday, June 30, 2007

Personal Shopper

Yesterday we had a training/teambuilding day by a company called as-u-are. The idea behind it: helping people identify their self-image and making sure your external image matches the self-image. Part of the process is advice from a stylist/personal shopper.

Apparently I am a strong spring or strong autumn type, which means I have a lot of colours in my skin, eyes and hair. The colours below are MY colours apparently.
She also chose an outfit for each of use that we needed to model for the rest. Results were quite stunning, people really looked different in their new attires. As for me, everyone who knows me can confirm that I am pigheaded/stubborn. After careful inspection I bought one top and dismissed the rest. Still a very valuable day!



Three generation ERs and me in my new top!

Thursday, June 28, 2007

News is a rush

If you are into journalism, media, pr, news etc. you already know that experienced newsaddicts pre-sort what you need to hear or read about. Paris Hilton's release from jail is important but a typhoon in a country far away might not be. A similar typhoon in a former colony is again important as is all soccer news, national politicians and the queen.

Anyways, these news addicts sit behind their desks and get like 10 emails every second containing different newsworthy items. They select which ones will be forwarded to papers and other media and which ones will be deleted. These simply dissapear from the face of the earth.

In the Netherlands this very important task is done by the Netherlands National News Agency (ANP). The PR-agency I work for is an important client for them and thus we set up a company visit. We got a tour passed the "heart of the news room" a.k.a. the Titanic (highly stressfull area, 24 h shifts and shaped like a ship). The tour also took us passed the photography department and the radio department.

PR people are like many people working in the media real newsaddicts. We were asking the guy whether we could acces their database so we could get the news at the same time the journalists do. Unfortunately we have to wait, just like the other people.

News is so thrilling......

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

The inspiration in beauty

Art has always been part of my life. My mother, an artist herself, dragged me along to expositions and explained different paintings to me. I did not inherit her talent. I do have a strong,personal taste very different from my mothers's. I prefer expressionist paintings, she likes sculptures.

I also have a thing for the classics. Romeo and Juliet is my favourite story. I love Shakespeare, mythology and history. I prefer classic fashion over modern one. I love the old Hollywood movie stars and black and white pictures. The pictures below inspired me, I hope others find them inspiring too.



Saturday, June 23, 2007

Start of the weekend with body balance class

Friday, June 22, 2007

No work, all play?? Annual trip with PR agency











As most of you know, I work part-time at an investor relations agency in The Hague. Every year they organize a trip for entire agency and yesterday this annual highlight took place. Nice of working in The Hague is the fact that Scheveningen Beach is only 10 minutes away by tram. Our bosses' had rented a very trendy beachclub where we chilled, had some drinks and food.


The party was almost ruined before it started since rain showers were pouring down from dark skies. Menso, my co-worker and me had to share one tiny umbrella and with the sea wind we were soaked before arrival. Beachclubs are ofcourse associated with warm, sunny weather so this was a bit of a spoiler. Fortunately it became dry again quickly and we could still enjoy the beach.

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Happiness in Denmark

Sometimes you can be utterly and genuinely happy for someone else. Today I had that feeling. Renbin (the Danish MCVPER 05-06) got hitched in Denmark. I was looking at the pictures from the wedding and she looked so beautiful and happy. The scenery was amazing and everyone at the wedding seemed to have such a good time.

Congratulations Renbin, I wish you all the best as a newly wed and hope you have a wonderful life together!

Monday, June 18, 2007

Concert Guus Meeuwis

Yesterday I went to a concert by Guus Meeuwis in the PSV-stadium. Guus Meeuwis is a Dutch singer who predominantly sings songs with easy lyrics that create atmosphere. He is kinda the Dutch version of Robbie Williams.

The atmosphere in the stadium was truly amazing, as you can see in this video. My voice is a bit soar today because all of the singing but it was amazing for sure.

Sexual discrimination in the City


BBC Two's Sex, The City and Me



A huge sexual discrimination claim worth more than $1bn is currently being brought against a major investment bank in London and New York as a class action for 500 women.
Whatever the outcome of that case, the vast majority of other cases have ended in gagging clauses, so a BBC programme seeks to reveal the truth behind stories like these for the first time in a fictional drama inspired by real, in depth testimony.

Senior banker Sarah, 40, sued her bank last year. Despite 15 years experience at the bank, she was paid significantly less than her male counterparts, referred to in meetings as a waitress and excluded from all-male client entertainment on the golf course. She was all the more angry because she "worked right up until my waters broke" and was then back in the office just a few days after she gave birth to prove a point. "I thought they gave me respect for that, but looking back I was kidding myself."

The BBC spoke to dozens of women in confidence and the same stories emerged time and again. Perhaps most shocking is that employees who dared take the banks to a tribunal encountered ruthless tactics in the lead-up to the hearings.

Corporate financier Carrie, 45, had her bank and email accounts tapped into.
Banker Fiona, 30, was followed and made the subject of a smear campaign in the papers. To pile on the pressure, copies of her work emails containing explicit sexual jokes were then sent to family and friends.
Sarah, Lucy and Joanna all told stories of personnel departments "losing" or destroying evidence that was vital to their cases.

I would find it easier to tell someone I'm HIV positive than to tell them I have sued for sexual discrimination, the stigma is so strong
(Former bank employee)

Sex, the City and Me was originally supposed to be a documentary looking at some of these cases. They are just some of the dozens of women we spoke to in confidence, but time and again we were thwarted by gagging clauses insisted on by the banks and agreed by the women as a condition of settlement.
Our only option became to tell the story as a drama. In this article, their names and identifiable details about their cases have been changed.

Maternity cases

According to the Equal Opportunities Commission, women in the City are paid 43% less than men - compared with a national pay gap of 22%. City employment lawyers say that more than half their sex discrimination cases are to do with pregnancy and maternity.

Katharina Tofeji, like the women we interviewed, has suffered a mental breakdown from the stress of bringing a maternity case. She is currently awaiting the outcome of the case she has brought against BNP Paribas. Employment lawyer Camilla Palmer of Palmer and Wade always advises City-women to think very carefully before they litigate.

"Many suffer severe stress when they go to court, most end up at the doctor at some point and it's particularly damaging if they're pregnant. And if you're a senior partner in the City, bringing a high class action, you'll never work in the City again," she says. "It's time consuming, stressful, expensive and uncertain. And you have to face huge amounts of hostility. The power balance is stacked against women bringing cases."
Despite the warning, she said most of her City clients feel compelled to challenge the way they have been treated.

"There's only one thing worse than suing a bank and that's winning," says another employment lawyer, Gillian Howard. The vast majority never work in the City again; they become professional pariahs losing huge potential earnings. If they lose, the huge legal costs are life-changing.

Olivia, 40, who sued her bank in 2004, says that despite the veneer of equal opportunities, "in many ways, things are worse now for women than they used to be.
"I remember when traders used to crawl under our desks to see if we were wearing stockings, but that was easy to deal with.

"The sexism has now gone underground and while several of the big banks look like they're making concerted efforts to recruit more women, in my experience, they're still not following through."

"It just makes it easier for them to fight cases when they can say: 'look at our diversity training, we've ticked the box'. Any kind of work to redress inequality of any type should be applauded, but it needs to have teeth."

Olivia settled out of court, but has not worked since her case. "I genuinely think I would find it easier to tell someone I'm HIV positive than to tell them I have sued for sexual discrimination, the stigma is so strong," she says. It doesn't help because a lot of women in the City think you're wrong to have done it, but money corrupts and you lose your moral compass. The truth has got to come out."

Sex, The City and Me made by Blast Films is on BBC Two on Sunday 17 June at 2100BST

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Thesis-avoiding-behavior

Need to finish thesis and get my degree.

My house is clean (sort of), my laundry is done, I organized my closet and then my books, I did my groceries, I organized the music on my laptop and my documents and my pictures. I reorganised my furniture. I bought a new summer wardrobe, new clothes to wear to work and clothes to go clubbing. I checked my horoscope and my friends’ blogs. I updated my pages on Hyves and Facebook.

Is there anything more I can do with my time, that gives me an excuse to avoid working on my thesis??

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Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Middle-East: behind the headlines

As some of you know I am a big fan of Robert Fisk, this is one of his latest columns, just to get you thinking.
http://news.independent.co.uk/fisk/

Robert Fisk: Lies and outrages... would you believe it?
It was Israel which attacked Egypt after Nasser closed the straits of Tiran Published: 09 June 2007

When I was a schoolboy, I loved a column which regularly appeared in British papers called "Ripley's Believe It or Not!". In a single rectangular box filled with naively drawn illustrations, Ripley - Bob Ripley - would try to astonish his readers with amazing facts:

"Believe It or Not, in California, an entire museum is dedicated to candy dispensers ... Believe It or Not, a County Kerry man possesses an orange that is 25 years old ... Believe It or Not, a weather researcher had his ashes scattered on the eve of Hurricane Danielle 400 miles off the coast of Miama, Florida." Etc, etc, etc.

Incredibly, Ripley's column lives on, and there is even a collection of "Ripley Believe It or Not" museums in the United States.

The problem, of course, is that these are all extraordinary facts which will not offend anyone. There are no suicide bombers in Ripley, no Israeli air strikes ("Believe It or Not, 17,000 Lebanese and Palestinians, most of them civilians, were killed in Israel's 1982 invasion of Lebanon"), no major casualty tolls ("Believe It or Not, up to 650,000 Iraqis died in the four years following the 2003 Anglo-American invasion of Iraq"). See what I mean? Just a bit too close to the bone (or bones).

But I was reminded of dear old Ripley when I was prowling through the articles marking the anniversary of the 1967 Arab-Israeli war. Memoirs there have been aplenty, but I think only the French press - in the shape of Le Monde Diplomatique - was prepared to confront a bit of "Believe It or Not".

It recalled vividly - and shamefully - how the world's newspapers covered the story of Egypt's "aggression" against Israel. In reality - Believe It or Not - it was Israel which attacked Egypt after Nasser closed the straits of Tiran and ordered UN troops out of Sinai and Gaza following his vituperative threats to destroy Israel. "The Egyptians attack Israel," France-Soir told its readers on 5 June 1967, a whopper so big that it later amended its headline to "It's Middle East War!".

Quite so. Next day, the socialist Le Populaire headlined its story "Attacked on all sides, Israel resists victoriously". On the same day, Le Figaro carried an article announcing that "the victory of the army of David is one of the greatest of all time". Believe It or Not, the Second World War - which might be counted one of the greatest of all time, had ended only 22 years earlier.

Johnny Hallyday, France's undie-able pop star, sang for 50,000 French supporters of Israel - for whom solidarity was expressed in the French press by Serge Gainsbourg, Juliette Gréco, Yves Montand, Simone Signoret, Valéry Giscard d'Estaing and François Mitterand. Believe It or Not - and you can believe it - Mitterand once received the coveted Francisque medal from Pétain's Vichy collaborationists.

Only the president of France, General de Gaulle, moved into political isolation by telling a press conference several months later that Israel "is organising, on the territories which it has taken, an occupation which cannot work without oppression, repression and expulsions - and if there appears resistance to this, it will in turn be called 'terrorism'". This accurate prophecy earned reproof from the Nouvel Observateur - to the effect that "Gaullist France has no friends; it has only interests". And Believe It or Not, with the exception of one small Christian paper, there was in the entire French press one missing word: Palestinians.

I owe it to the academic Anicet Mobé Fansiama to remind me this week that - Believe It or Not - Congolese troops from Belgium's immensely wealthy African colony scored enormous victories over Italian troops in Africa during the Second World War, capturing 15,000 prisoners, including nine generals. Called "the Public Force" - a name which happily excluded the fact that these heroes were black Congolese - the army mobilised 13,000 soldiers and civilians to fight Vichy French colonies in Africa and deployed in the Middle East - where they were positioned to defend Palestine - as well as in Somalia, Madagascar, India and Burma.

Vast numbers of British and American troops passed through the Congo as its wealth was transferred to the war chests of the United States and Britain.

A US base was built at Kinshasa to move oil to Allied troops fighting in the Middle East.

But - Believe It or Not - when Congolese trade unions, whose members were requisitioned to perform hard labour inside Belgium's colony by carrying agricultural and industrial goods and military equipment, often on their backs, demanded higher salaries, the Belgian authorities confronted their demonstrations with rifle fire, shooting down 50 of their men.

At least 3,000 political prisoners were deported for hard labour to a remote district of Congo. Thus were those who gave their blood for Allied victory repaid. Or rather not repaid. The four billion Belgian francs which was owed back to the Congo - about £500m in today's money - was never handed over. Believe It or Not.

So let's relax and return to Ripley reality. "Believe It or Not, Russell Parsons of Hurricane, West Virginia, has his funeral and cremation instructions tattooed on his arm! ... Believe It or Not, in April 2007 (yes, these are new Ripleys) a group of animal lovers paid nearly $3,400 to buy 300 lobsters from a Maine fish market - then set them free back into the ocean! ... Believe It or Not, in a hospital waiting room, 70 per cent of people suffer from broken bones, 75 per cent are fatigued, 80 per cent have fevers. What percentage of people must have all four ailments?" Believe It or Not, I don't know. And oh yes, "Geta, Emperor of Rome AD189-212, insisted upon alternative meals. A typical menu: partridge (perdix), peacock (pavo), leek (porrum), beans (phaseoli), peach (persica), plum (pruna) and melon (pepone)."

I guess after that, you just have to throw up.

Monday, June 11, 2007

Restless

I enjoyed the calmness lately. Spending time with friends, laying in the parc, going clubbing, talking to friends on the phone and watching movies.

I am a bit restless though. I miss the travelling, meeting new people, the landscapes, the cultures, the tiredness, the music, the smells, the bumpy roads, the languages and the new cities.

I think I am up for new things again. Good thing summer is coming.

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

Me as a teacher: multicultural classroom

On Wednesday I tutor kids from the (Dutch system)7th grade, 11 years old. The school is located 5 minutes from my house. This neighbourhood is very multicultural so to say. Today's classes could not make that more clear.
The children needed to write a paper on European countries they were interested in. When helping them, they started sharing why they chose their specific countries.

A boy told me his aunt lives in France and the bread and cheese are really good there. His mom and day were born in Turkey, near to Ankara and they met only later in the Netherlands.

A girl commented while writing her paper about different fuels, that her aunt lived in a house located right on top of a big oven in Syria. In winter it was always warm there.

Another boy told me he lived in Kosovo when he was little. He was writing about Albania and explained the languages and culture are quite similar.


There were only 9 children in the class: different origins, different religions: different upbringings. Diversity at its best I guess.

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Money as the ultimate drive

During lunch I ended up in a debate with my co-workers. The topic of controversy: should leadership always be compensated with huge salaries?

The main example we were discussing were directors of NGO’s. The director of the heart disease association earns a ridiculous amount of money, but he states he should get that money to compensate for the fact he quit being a brain surgeon. I simply cannot agree with this line of reasoning.

Leaders are inspirators and motivators. How great can you be if your only drive is money? How much passion do you have for an organisation then? How committed are you really?

Ofcourse this is a bit black-white thinking but in my world money is not the only motivation for the job you do.

Monday, June 04, 2007

Babel: big themes packed in a holiday guide



How can one event change so many lives across the globe?

That is the theme of Babel, an intriguing movie. The story is not only interesting but the scenery is amazing as well. Morocco, USA, Mexico, Japan: Babel is like a holiday guide. Big themes like rascism, border controls, rifle ownership, suicide, loss of a child, bad relationships are all dealt with. In that respect the movie might have overdone it sometimes. If the stories were a bit simpler, they might be more powerful. However, still a must see for everyone!!!